DISCERNMENT COUNSELLING

Discernment counseling is a type of therapy designed for couples who are uncertain about the future of their relationship. It is a short-term intervention that helps couples to explore their options and make a decision about the direction they want their relationship to take. The goal of discernment counseling is not to fix the relationship, but to help the couple decide whether they want to work on the relationship or end it.

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What is discernment counselling?

The discernment counseling process is focused on helping the couple to gain clarity about their current situation. The therapist helps the couple to identify the patterns of behavior and communication that have led to their current situation. The therapist also works with the couple to explore their hopes, fears and expectations for the future. The goal of discernment counseling is to help the couple make a decision that is in the best interests of both partners.

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How does discernment counselling works?

Discernment counseling is a brief and structured approach designed for couples who are uncertain about the future of their relationship. In this process, a trained discernment counselor helps the couple explore their options and gain clarity on whether to continue working on the relationship or pursue separation or divorce. The counselor creates a safe space for open and honest communication, focusing on understanding each individual's perspectives and goals. By providing guidance and support, discernment counseling assists couples in making informed decisions about their relationship path, offering a compassionate approach to navigating a challenging crossroad.

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What to expect from discernment counselling?

Discernment counseling is designed for couples who are uncertain about the future of their relationship. It is typically used when one partner considers ending the relationship and the other partner wants to work on the relationship. Discernment counseling is not recommended for couples who are experiencing physical or emotional abuse. It is also not recommended for couples who are already in the process of separating or divorcing. Therefore, discernment counseling is a short-term intervention designed to help couples who are uncertain about the future of their relationship.

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Take your first step now by contacting Couplebees and scheduling a discernment counseling session with one of our experienced therapists. Our therapists are trained in helping couples navigate complex relationship issues and will work with you to gain clarity and understanding about your situation. Whether you decide to work on the relationship or end it, discernment counseling can help you make a decision that is in the best interests of both partners.

Frequently Asked Questions

The primary goal of discernment counseling is to help couples gain clarity and make a decision about the future of their relationship. While the outcome of discernment counseling is not always reconciliation, it can help couples find a path forward that is right for them, whether that involves staying together or pursuing separation.
Traditional couples counseling focuses on resolving conflicts and improving the relationship. In contrast, discernment counseling is focused on helping couples explore all options—staying together as they are, moving towards a divorce, or committing to a focused period of couples therapy.
Discernment counseling typically involves a series of individual and joint sessions. The therapist works with each partner individually to understand their perspectives and goals and then conducts joint sessions to facilitate open and honest communication. The therapist helps the couple explore their options and understand the underlying issues in the relationship.
Discernment counseling can still be helpful even if one partner is initially reluctant. The process creates a safe space for open communication, allowing both partners to better understand each other's perspectives and concerns. However, both partners must be willing to engage honestly in the process for it to be effective.
Even if you and your partner have already made the decision to divorce or separate, discernment counseling can still be beneficial. It provides a structured environment for you both to explore your individual needs, reflect on the factors that led to the decision, and gain clarity about your future paths. The process can help facilitate a more amicable and thoughtful separation, enabling you to navigate the process with greater understanding and mutual respect. It can also support you in addressing any unresolved emotions or concerns before moving forward separately.